Sexuality, It's not a choice!

So, sexuality. This can be a hard thing for some people, even though in the modern day and age we live in now, some find it hard to accept the different types of sexuality's. The reason why i am touching on this subject is because i have a friend that has recently realised she is gay/lesbian and she is quite religious so they believe they may be going against God by feeling this way. This happens with alot of people and some people go to the extreme of committing suicide because they believe God will no longer love them if they feel this way about the same sex. Now I'm not religious in any form, but what i will say is, God also says that everyone should love each other for who they are, and if we are Gods children then he will love each and every one of us equally, regardless of sexuality. People can't help the way they are, it isn't a choice, but it isn't a curse like some people think, i never judge anyone on their sexuality, this is discrimination and it is just as bad as judging someone if they are of a different race/culture, or they have a disability. I find that the majority of people that have religious views, depending on how strongly their beliefs are, will not accept people with different sexuality's and this is why it is hard for people, especially young adults/teenagers to tell the truth about it to their families or friends because they are afraid they will get abandoned. It should not be this way, it is hard enough for someone who has a different sexuality to accept who they are, so if their family can't accept it then maybe they don't deserve that person in their lives.

I treat everyone the same, i just wish there were alot more people on the world that accepted everyone in the form they are born in. If everyone was the same, it would be so boring, it's good and exciting to know people from different cultures or backgrounds. I love each and every one of my friends/family for who they are and if any of them told me they were gay/bisexual/transgender then i would love them the same, if not more for telling me their true identity. Unfortunately, not all people in the world will see it this way, and that will always be the case, which makes me very sad, especially knowing in some countries people get killed/abandoned/beat up/commit suicide just because people/family/friends won't accept them for who they are.

So if you, or anyone you know has a different sexuality please don't keep as it as a secret letting it eat away at you, tell someone you trust, or talk to a support group, or even me if you think that will help, your not alone i promise you that. Everyone is beautiful no matter what size/race/culture/sexuality you are, and i truly mean that! :)


                                                                                


           




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Thank you for taking the time to read this! Destiny xoxo

              

Dieting!!

Ok, i know i haven't done a post in sooo long but i am going to try to do a weekly blog starting today.
So i want to talk about dieting as i have started this new diet today called the 5:2 diet. This is where i can eat normal for 5 days a week and for the other 2 days i will be fasting so i can only have 500 calories for the whole day. It seems to have worked for alot of other people so i thought i could give it a shot. So far, so good. I've started out with a cup of coffee and 1 nutri-grain biscuit for breakfast and 2 hard boiled eggs for lunch, for dinner i think I'll have a piece of chicken with some veg. The thing i like about this diet is you can eat what ever you want, even on your fast days, it's just about moderating what you have, i mean if you fancy a treat like chocolate go have it but don't have a huge bar or eat it every day, use it as a TREAT. The problem with some diets is they take away the things your body needs ie carbohydrates (carbs). I have a friend that has cut carbs out of their diet completely and they live on meat, salad, some fruit and veg and nuts. To me that's ridiculous, even though she has lost a ton of weight it's a little extreme in my books. Your body needs protein, carbs, fat, sugar etc, the secret is to include everything in your diet but have small portions.
On my non-fasting days, i will have cereal for breakfast, for lunch i won't have much carbs so i'll eat soup or chicken with rice, then dinner will be meat, veg and some potatoes, snacks are fruit and yoghurt. It's healthy and includes everything my body needs. I also try to do some yoga and zumba but find it hard to keep up a
routine as my shifts change in work.
 
My point is a diet shouldn't be something to dread it's all about moderating your eating habits, exercising regularly and treating yourself a few times a week. Also a diet isn't always for losing weight, some people need it to put on weight. For example my partner has a fast metabolism so he needs to eat more regularly, do weight lifting to gain muscle and just include some extra protein in his diet. So unfortunately we are complete opposites, i put on weight looking at a cake and he could eat 24/7 and not put anything on, maybe there's something that could help us switch? Haha! No, didn't think so. But seriously everyone needs to stop taking weight loss so seriously, you don't need to starve yourselves, i've been there, done that when i was 14 and it isn't good. Just be happy and healthy, and if your comfortable with your body don't change it for no one.
I would love to hear your opinions on dieting, so feel free to drop me a comment!



Thank you

<3 Destiny <3

Me. Just giving you all a little more insight to me as a person :)

1) Sexuality? I'm straight, although i have kissed a few girls

2) If you could meet anyone on this Earth who would it be? Either Jennifer Aniston, because she's my favorite actress or Eminem, he's been so inspirational for me throughout my whole life.

3) What does your latest text message say? From my mum: It's ok I'll wait here.

4) Are you easily scared by horror/gore? I get quite jumpy when i watch horror and have quite a weak stomach so try to avoid gore.

5) Ever had a poem or song written about you? I think i had a poem about me when i was about 14/15, can't remember very well.

6) Do you have any strange phobias? I hate belly buttons, especially when people touch them!

7) Are you afraid of spiders? Oh yes!

8) Favorite band? It's hard but i would say either Green Day or Paramore

9) Do you have an accent? Yep, I'm welsh.

10) What is your greatest weakness and your greatest strength?

Greatest weakness: I can't do Maths, I can add up/takeaway/divide that's it.

Greatest strength: I'm a good dancer and can write good poems when i get my head down.

11) Who is your celebrity crush? Channing Tatum - OMG!

12) How do you vent your anger? I talk about it or rant to my boyfriend.

13) Do you have a collection of anything? Not really, I have alot of ornaments.

14) Are you happy with the person you’ve become?Yes, a year or so ago i wasn't a very nice person but i've grown up and changed for the better.

15) What’s a sound you hate/sound you love?

 Hate: Nails scratching on a blackboard

Love: Calm music

16) What’s your biggest “what if”? What if i went to college instead of staying on in sixth form, would i be with my boyfriend today.

17) Do you believe in ghosts? Aliens? Not ghosts, but aliens yes, i believe if we can be here why can't there other life forms out there.

18) To you, what is the meaning of life? To love, have fun and treat every day like it's your last. You only live once.

19) Define art:To express yourself and use your imagination.

20) What’s the worst injury you’ve ever had? I cut my head open when i was 5 and had to have stitches.

21) Do you have any obsessions right now? My online chat game IMVU and Ariana Grande.

22) Have you ever had a rumour spread about you? I have yes, unfortunately.

23) Do you tend to hold grudges against people who have done you wrong? I don't hold grudges but sometimes i forgive someone but never forget what they did.

24) How many relationships have you had? I've had quite a few in school, I had my first serious relationship from age 14 to 17 and now i'm in my second and hopefully last one.

25) Where is your best friend? In her house.

26) Are you the kind of person you would want to have as a friend? I think so :)

27) You can only have one of these things, trust or love: Trust. You can have someone love you but without trust it means nothing.

28) What song always makes you happy when you hear it? Christina Perri - Thousand Years.

29) What is the first thing that comes to mind when I say the word “heart”? Love.

30) What is a saying you say alot? 'I know like'

31) What's the last song you listened to? Nicole Scherzinger - Poison because it was on my Zumba game.

32) What would be a question you are afraid to tell the truth on? I can't think of one, i try to always be honest and truthful.

33) You can erase any horrible experience from your past. What will it be? My first relationship, it was the worst time of my life.

34) Have you ever thrown up in the car?Not that i can remember, but i threw up on a bus from being drunk.

35) Ever been on a plane? Yes, when i was 12 to Salou and when i was 15 to Benidorm.

Last question) If the whole world was listening to you right now what would you say? 

Can we please stop fighting, everyone has different opinions and we can't change that!