We Can Do It If We Try!! :D

Today, what with the credit crunch and everything, it is so hard to find a job. I started looking for work 3 years ago when i was 16 and still i have had no luck what so ever. I work so hard to try to find a job aswell, i ask around shops, hand my CV in or send it off, fill in application forms and check online most days, but still i don't get reply or anything. I haven't even had that many interviews either, it's just so difficult to find work. I think alot of employers are too fussy aswell, like i think that because i'm young some employers wouldn't employ me because alot of youngsters mess around and don't take their job seriously but that doesn't mean that all youngsters would do that, it's just judgmental which is horrible for me because that lessens my chances of getting a job even more. And whereas i have difficulty finding one job some people i know have two or three or some can come out of one job and walk straight into another and i'm just like 'How do you do it?!' I want a job just doing anything really, i don't have a pacific career i want to do, i just want to find a nice job that i will enjoy and pays good money, so then i could save for a house and go on holidays with my boyfriend. Surely it's not too much to ask. Another problem with finding jobs today is lack of experience and training. Alot of places do give training but then the ones that people really want which will give a decent wage, you need to have had training or experience, but how can you gain experience if you never had a job before but you can't get a job without experience! It cooks my head it really does! But then even the people who come out of Uni with degrees can't find jobs, i mean how messed up is that. You work for years to get a degree in what you want to do and then you can't find a job, how utterly disappointing. I think that's why alot of people travel abroad to look for work because it's much easier in places like Spain and that to find a job, which is quite bad i think that people have to leave their own country and families to find work, it's not good at all, but what can we do? Also, i never went to college, i stayed on in sixth form in school for 2 years studying Child Care, at the time that's the career i thought i wanted but after 4 years of studying (2 for GCSE and 2 for Child Care CACHE) i found that working with children wasn't for me and i just wanted to find a job, maybe in an office or in retail, i wasn't quite sure, but as i found when i moved in with my boyfriend it's alot harder than i thought. We live in a council flat in a horrible little village and we have a joint claim on Jobseekers Allowance and it's just horrible. We hardly ever get to go out because we can't afford it also none of us drive so we have to pay for buses if we do go out which is expensive, but sometimes we do walk into town. Our friends are always going on holidays and we so want to go but we have no choice, we just can't go anywhere not even to a hotel for the night. But even though sometimes we get a bit stressed we just think we are going to find good jobs, save lots of money and get our own house because it's the way you have to think these days, you have to be positive. And unlike most youngsters we actually want to find jobs and do something with our lives, and i believe we have the right attitude to get us where we want to be some day, we just have to be patient and wait. And that goes to everyone who is struggling to find work. Don't ever give up! Keep your head held high, work hard to look for work and always stay positive, even when times are tough just remember alot of people are in the same boat as you and one we will all have some kind of luck and find jobs. So let's just all try and stay positive and good luck to everyone out there that is unemployed! Cheers to you all! :)

Some people will do almost anything for a bit of spare cash.....

   

But....

And.......

    :)

So What If They Are Different

Disabled people are no different to people without disabilities. Yes they act different and some of them can't talk but that just means they need more care and help with things. I hate it when people discriminate against disabled people and especially get upset when people bully them. It's not their fault that they were born the way they were but that doesn't matter anyway because that's no excuse to bully them or give them filthy looks. I have a brother who has asperges syndrome. This is a form of autism that effects some parts of the brain which means that he may not be able to function properly in some ways. He only has it slightly. He can walk, talk, run and do everything i can do. He did have to have speech therapy when he was younger and couldn't speak until the age of 7 but trust me, he makes up for it now, he don't stop talking! (haha) I love him so much and even though he can be hard work at times he is a lovely caring boy and he always tries to look after me, he is very over protective even though he is 2 years younger than me. He likes to do his own thing and i suppose the only way you could tell that he has a disability is that when he gets excited he flaps his arms. He is also very clever with computer games and consoles. He can have a new game and know how to play it almost straight away. He also loves bugs and animals, he will pick up any insect or animal no matter how big or small and he loves fishing. Compared to other autistic children he is what people call "normal". Some children in his class in school who also have autism can't even speak. My brother used to play football for a children's disabled football team called the RCT Tigers. Once when i went to watch him play, spent all day with a girl the same age as me but she couldn't speak at all, called Amy. And even though she didn't breath a word to me it was amazing to spend time with someone like that she made me feel happy but at the same time sad for her, but watching her pick flowers for me i realised these people with disabilities they aren't sad for themselves because to them it's "normal" to never talk or never walk and do you know what it is "normal".We all think that disabled people can't do things for themselves and they don't know anything, but they are very clever. If they can't talk they may turn out to be and excellent runner or if they can't walk they may be amazing at computer games, if they can't read or write they may be fabulous dancers, singers or actors. We judge disabled people too much and we shouldn't think that just because they can't walk or talk that they can't do anything, when the fact is that they are very clever, maybe more clever than ourselves so we shouldn't judge or discriminate against disabled people, ever.
Onto bullying disabled people. Bullying a someone without a disability is bad enough, i should know i got bullied in primary school. But to bully a disabled person is just the lowest you can get. When my brother was about 10 years old the older boys that lived in my area used to bully him a lot. They would throw things at him, call his names and copy him when he flapped his arms. He would come in shouting an in a temper, which means we would have to deal with him throwing things and lashing out. I would mostly go out and shout at the boys who did this but they never listened. They also taught my brother swear words and rude things and when he repeated them no matter how much me and my parent's would say it's wrong and naughty and he shouldn't same them, he didn't understand and so he would start swearing. This is just a mild form of bullying for disabled children some children get beaten up and some even killed. This is not right and the people who do these things are thugs and they are wimps because they have nothing better to do than to pick on disabled people who not very often can defend for themselves. Disabled people can work and people with not so severe disabilities can even drive. There are driving schools that teach disabled people especially so that they will be able to have a car, get a job and even their own home. There have been documentaries on television to show disabled people can even have stable relationship and start their own family. I respect the disabled people that want to do these things and believe they themselves have the power to do it if they really want to. There are charities who support what disabled people want such as, disabiltyworks:uk, Scope, Mencap and loads more.
For people who have disabled relative or friend you can relate to what i'm saying but for those who don't, disabled children aren't any different to us and so don't judge or discriminate against them just because they are different get to know them first and you will soon see that they are kind and caring people who just want to be accepted into the world with open arms and friends and family to love them.

           Please don't let disabled people feel unwanted, welcome them with open arms :)

Just Say No!

Hey everyone sorry i haven't done a post for a few days, but me and my boyfriend have been ill so i've been busy looking after us both. Well today i've decided to talk about an uprising issue in today's society: Drugs.

Now i'm not a judgmental person but when it comes to people doing drugs i wouldn't give them the time of the day because drugs are wrong. I don't understand why people want to do them. Yes i know they give people a rush and some people do them to relax and get loose or whatever but i still think that's no reason to turn to drugs, especially hard drugs, such as cocaine, speed, ecstasy, magic mushrooms and the worst one: heroine. Recently someone i used to know died (God rest her soul)she was an a woman in her forties and had been doing heroine for many years, from injecting so much she had gangerine and puss at the top of her leg, it was disgusting. People had tipped off the police many times but she never got caught. I think it was really terrible what she was doing especially as she lived in a street full of children and two of them lived next door to her. Everyone knew she was taking heroine because she always looked a mess, her words were always slurred and after a while she even stopped coming out of her house. As my mam lives in the same street just across the road from her, when i lived with my mam and seen alot of things. One time i seen her in her car which was parked in the middle of the road and she was slumped in the driver seat, totally out of it with her head on the steering wheel. Another time i was outside my house and as she pulled into her drive way she almost drove straight into the wall. I was older and more mature to know what was going on but there was alot of young children that didn't understand and they would stare and you could see by the looks on their faces they were wondering what was wrong with the woman. It's disgusting to think she could go out acting like that knowing there are young children around and even i find the whole drugged up look very scary so god knows how the children were feeling. 

Personally i hate any type of drug but i'm not against one, that is weed. I'm not against it because it's not a hard drug, it only relaxes people and it doesn't put the user or other people in danger. Don't get me wrong it's still a drug i know and i hate drugs, but it's not a dangerous one so i think it could be accepted. But as for the other drugs i hate them all. They are all very wrong and they shouldn't be introduced to anyone. I don't understand why people want to inject themselves or sniff stuff just to make them high, why don't they suck helium. (Lol) No only joking. 

Well i haven't go much else to say on the matter at the moment as i'm still ill my brain isn't functioning all too well. But if i think of anything else on the situation i will be adding it so please guys keep your eye out for more opinions and facts on this post. Would like to hear your comments and own opinions on this so please feel free to leave one :) Thank you for reading.

Don't Throw Your Life Away

These days i think sex is totally over-rated. Everyone feels the need to have it and even though the legal age is 16, most teenagers are having it by the age of 12, which I think is wrong. Why can't parent's discipline their children and teach them not to have sex at such a young age. There's no need for underage sex. Sex is for adults and i think children shouldn't even know about it until they're about 14 or 13 the youngest. But these days 8 and 9 year old's know more about sexual intercourse than what i do. I didn't learn about sex until i was about 13 or 14 years old which i think is the right age to know about it. I will admit i lost my virginity at the age of 15, my mum didn't know but when she found out she went crazy at me and put me straight on the pill. I also think contraceptive's are getting used less and less, which means teenage pregnancy and the risk of getting STD's are increasing. I also think most teenagers are pressured into sex either by their friends nagging them saying they have got to do it or a boy forces them into it. But you shouldn't feel forced or pressured because then it's not enjoyable and sex should be enjoyed but leave it until your older and when you feel the time is right for you. I have a friend who hasn't had sex yet and she is 18, she hasn't had it because she wants it to be with someone she loves, many times she has felt pressured but she has stayed strong which is the best thing to do. I don't understand why people want to have children at such a young age for, a child takes up the whole of your life, there's not much time for friends or going our or relaxing, it's just work, come home and look after the baby. What teenager would want a life like that? Most of being a teenager is all about going out with friends and having fun, but having a baby would take away that experience. But then most teenagers think "Oops i got pregnant, oh well let's have an abortion". I hate people who do that. I am totally against abortions and anyone who doesn't have a good reason to have one disgusts me. I mean your ending a life before it's even started, it's an innocent baby and teenagers want to abort it when it's their fault for not using contraception. I would prefer it if teenage girls had the baby's but gave it up for adoption because at least then the baby would be living and having a life with parent's who love and care for them, even though i'm not keen on adoption either.

And it's not just underage sex or pregnancy which causes a stir these days. Smoking and drinking are also very common with young teenagers. I don't discriminate against anyone who smokes or drinks, i mean i have a drink now and again and i know alot of people who smoke. But these days i see 12 year old's hanging round the streets with cans in their hands. And once or twice i've even been asked to go in the shop to get fags or booze for some 13 year old's, but i plainly say no because i'm not going to be the reason for someones 13 year old child getting hammered and ending up having their stomach pumped. Recently someone who i know put on facebook that he was drunk and he is only 11 years old, i think it's disgusting. I'm not sure if his mum knew because i know her and i know she wouldn't let her 11 year old son drink. I think most teenagers are pressured into drinking and smoking because they feel if they don't do it then they will be branded "uncool" and think they may get bullied. But if you teenagers just say no then you will realise in about 40 years time the people who said yes will be shaking your hand for saying no, because you will be fit and healthy while they can't even walk far without getting out of breath or they will have no money and be an alcoholic. So in the end you will come off better and a more "cool" person. But i see youngsters drinking and smoking and taking drugs and i think why? Oh god why? They are ruining their lives at such a young age and most of the time the parent's just stand back and let it happen, not having a care in the world. And they should care because that's their child, they gave birth to him/her. They should want their child to have a full long life.

 So my point today is i hope that teenage pregnancy, underage sex, smoking and underage drinking can be brought to a halt, because it's not fair and it's not nice to see our future generation throwing their lives away. They need to be disciplined and be shown the outcome of their lives if they carry on in this way. They should be shown that they need to be having fun and that can be done without smoking, drinking and sex.

                                                            Don't throw your life away!

You don't need any of these thing's to have fun or to be "cool"

It's simple: Just say NO!

Destiny-Leigh Poem: I Miss You

I wrote this poem when i still lived with my mum so i didn't get to see my boyfriend much. I wanted to be with him more than 2-3 times a week but it was difficult because none of us could drive and we couldn't always afford to get a bus, but as they say time apart makes the heart fonder and it did.

 I Miss You

I miss you when i'm not with you,

When we are apart,

I don't know what to do,

It breaks my heart.

I wish we could spend every day together,

Coz without you its boring,

I wish we didn't have to spend anytime apart, ever,

Coz when i'm with you, you send me soaring.

I miss you baby,

Please don't leave,

You've made me into a lady,

When your not with me it makes me wreath.

I miss you. :)

Destiny-Leigh Poem: In The Hands Of An Abuser

They cry out to us,
But we don't hear,
You think something's not right,
You see a tear.

You think nothing of it,
It's only a child,
But they can't defend,
Neither can they fight.

They are victims,
Their lives in the hands of an abuser,
He doesn't care about her tears,
He's either an alcoholic or a drug abuser.

He lays into her at night,
Pounding her with his fists,
She can't fight back,
He'll leave scars on her wrists.

After months of hurt,
He finally gets caught,
But it's too late now,
She has been taught...

...That you can't trust men,
She'll never have a boyfriend,
She'll sit alone at night,
Waiting for the end.

She sits alone in her dingy flat,
With no friends or family,
She'll take her daily fix,
Trying to block out her scarred memories.

One night she can take it no more,
She grabs her fix and loads up double,
With tears rolling down her cheek,
Her last thought: His rough stubble.

Then she injects and falls to the floor,
No longer can he hurt her, physically no more,
She's gone that's it he ruined her life,
He will rot away deep into the core.

Don't Let Them Cry Alone!

Today I'm going to talk about a very deep and emotional issue: child abuse. It's not something i like to think about but there's so much child abuse going on these days i just feel that it's an issue that needs to be pressed and i hope that one day it can be stopped completley. Young children all over the world are being abused. Either by parents, aunts, uncles, family friends or complete strangers and i think that it should be stopped now! It completley disgusts me that someone would want to hurt a young harmless and helpless child. Why have children if your going to abuse them?! Why would you want to harm a child?! What has that child ever done to you to make you want to hurt them?! These questions are constantly being asked by everyone who doesn't understand why there is such a thing as child abuse. I hate child abuse and think that those people who get caught harming a innocent child should be locked away for life and the key should be thrown away. Children's lives are getting ruined every day because of child abuse and even if the abusers are caught, those children are scarred for life. I know a few people who have been abused in some sort of way and the way they have turned out is not good. They are either constantly high on drugs, sleeping around or are a alcoholic. And i wish i could help them i really do, but the problem is that they have been hurt by someone for a while so now the only way to block out those horrible memories is to do things that are wrong, and hurtful in a way. Most people would say drugs or drink are not the answer. But how can you say that to someone who has been abused, you don't know how they are feeling, therefore we can only try to help those who have been hurt and hope that they try and forget those horrible memories. Child abuse is a very big issue in this day and age and it should be stopped now! I think that these days the government does have the power to stop child abuse before it gets worse, it's already spiralled out of control, how much worse will it get before something permanent is sorted. These children are our next generation. We should be protecting them against those who want to bring them harm, not standing back doing nothing. There are many charities that are trying to help children, such as Childline, the NSPCC and Kidscape. But these charities can not do it alone, they need the help of everyone else in the world and to be honest i don't think it's money that they really need, it's actual help they need to bring child abuse to a stop! There's also alot of sexual abuse, but it's not something i want to talk about, child abuse is hard enough to talk about. I would just like all types of abuse to be dealt with and stopped.
I don't think there's much more i can say on this matter, i have tears in my eyes just saying this little piece. I just hope that all the children being abused can find help before it's too late, and i hope the abusers are locked away and are never let out ever again. Please don't let these poor, innocent children feel that they are alone, please help them. If you are a victim of child abuse or know someone who is a victim of child abuse, please speak now. There are people who can help, i know you may you not think it but we are all here for you please just pick up the phone or tell a teacher or the police or anyone and your abuser will be caught and we promise you will never have to see them again. Please get the help you deserve. To everyone else i'm sorry that i have talked about such a upsetting issue today, i just wanted to get my point across and try to help in some sort of way, i know it's not much but just doing little could make a big difference.

Say no to child abuse! Please act now! Before it's too late.

A Passion For Fashion

Fashion is one big circle. Things come and go all the time. When i was younger i remember having a pair of clogs (lol!) but then eventually they went out of fashion because that's what happens in the fashion industry. Alot of people like to follow fashion and whatever is in fashion they will go out and buy those clothes, but then when a new clothes line comes in they will start buying those clothes. These days i think there's alot of bright colours and animal print that people like to wear. I personally don't tend to follow fashion because i'm comfortable with my own style, but if something i like comes into fashion then i will buy it. For example the 70's clothes have come back into fashion this year. You have flared trousers, flowered clothing, bangles, long necklaces, wedges, leopard print etc. At the moment i  love this clothes line, especially leopard print. I think it's a cool style and i quite like the flared trousers because i find they are very smart and can be worn as casual or for going out for the night. Other people may not like this clothes line because they have a different fashion sense. Between me and my friends i think each and very one of us has different dress styles. I'll use myself and my friend Sian for example. Whereas i like my leggings and comfy jeans, Sian likes her skinny's, but we both love trackies. I like to wear pumps, Sian likes to wear daps, but we both love to wear boots, i like my cardigans and shrugs and Sian likes to wear hoodies and varsity jackets, but we both like leather jackets. When we go out we both like to wear dresses and heels or sometimes just wear jeans and a nice top. So see we both have completely different dress styles but we also like similar things aswell.
Now i'm not going to be sexist and just talk about fashion for women because that wouldn't be fair. So onto men's fashion. I will be honest i'm not really fussed on men's clothing this year because i find it a bit camp. You have loose scarves, thin v-neck t-shirts, skinny jeans, workmen's boots etc. Don't get me wrong i think it's a nice style and very smart but i think it's too camp and if my boyfriend wore something like that i think i'd laugh and ask him to change. But like women, not all men follow fashion and some have their own style, like my boyfriend does. He likes to wear t-shirts, jeans, trackies, hoodies, trainers for casual and shirts, trousers and shoes when he goes out. I think this style is fine and very original.
I think alot of people feel pressured into fashion these days because they feel if they don't follow fashion then people won't like them, but i think that happens mostly with the popular groups in school, college work etc. People shouldn't let themselves be pressured into wearing thing's they don't like. You should wear thing's that you feel comfortable in. Don't worry about what other people say, as long as your happy it doesn't matter what they think and if they can't like you for who you are and not for the clothes you wear, well then bugger them. So thank you for reading my blog and hope you enjoyed :) Would like to hear your views on fashion if you have any :D xoxo

Destiny-Leigh Poem: A Heart Of Stone

To me you had a heart of stone,

You didn't care about me,

I felt so alone.

With no one to turn to,

And nowhere to hide,

There was nothing I could do.

You hurt me bad, and called me names,

You thought it was funny,

You had no shame.

You turned him against me

Now that was low,

My own couldn't see….

….That what you was doing,

Was so very mean,

I couldn't even let them see me crying.

You turned them against me,

I've lost them for good,

I'm no longer his girl, no longer his baby.

One day you will get what you deserve,

What comes around goes around,

You won’t have a chance to swerve.

But now I’m done,

I don’t care anymore,

Your just another heartless person

                                         No longer his girl... :'(

My Cinderella Story

Do you know one thing i hate? It's stepmothers. The disney films actually show stepmothers for what they truly are and that is an evil wicked bitch (instead of witch hehe). I feel so sorry for anyone who has a stepmother because they always seem to be horrible to the husbands children. I know this because i've been through hell with my stepmother all my life. Unlike Cinderella i don't live with my stepmother (thank god), i don't have two ugly stepsisters and my father is thankfully still alive. But one thing i would compare to Cinderella that i have the same as her is a evil stepmother. So now i'm going to tell you my Cinderella story....
Once upon a time there was a young girl called Destiny-Leigh. She lived with her mother, stepfather and brother in a lovely little neighborhood. Destiny's mother and father had divorced when she was only a baby, but her father still had her over on the weekends, which was fun for a few years. Destiny's father had started going out with a woman called Lucinda and at first she was lovely to Destiny always taking her out shopping and talking to her. But then after a few years when Destiny was 8 years old she noticed that Lucinda started to talk funny to her, she started telling Destiny horrible things like that her mother didn't know how to look after kids and that her brother wasn't her real brother and even though Destiny was never cheeky to her elders after a while when she was about 11 she started arguing back with Lucinda. By this time Destiny's father and Lucinda had had two children, a boy and a girl, the boy was the oldest and Destiny loved her half brother and sister very much.
This went on for years and years. When Destiny was in her teens that was when Lucinda got worse. Lucinda would always say horrible things about Destiny's mother and she would always say when it was just the four of them everything was fine but when Destiny came over there was always arguments. Lucinda always made Destiny feel guilty and upset, she always went home and told her mother, not because she wanted to cause trouble but because she was close to her mother so liked to confide in her. The arguments that Lucinda caused were just ridiculous, once Lucinda, Destiny's father and the children were going to saint Fagins for a day out, they asked if Destiny if she wanted to come but she very politely said no thank you she would like to go home to see her mother as she had been away from her all weekend. At this Lucinda went crazy and started shouting at Destiny calling her selfish and ungrateful, Destiny argued her case but her dad wouldn't stick up for her. And these are just one of the many things that Lucinda did. As Destiny got older things spiralled out of control, Lucinda kept causing arguments every time Destiny went over her fathers. Then when Destiny thought things couldn't get any worse, they did. When Destiny was 18 her father started to act funny with her, he would have a go at her for little things like, "When are going to have your hair cut it's in your eyes all the time mun", and he would shout at her for taking food out of the fridge in her grans house without asking even though she'd never asked before because she new her gran didn't mind. One day he even had a go at her for being ill.
Destiny thought that her relationship with her father was never going to get better, she just wanted to be rescued by someone from this mess. So one day when Destiny was out with her friends at a dance she seen a young handsome boy, he was the most gorgeous guy Destiny had ever laid eyes on and whilst she was in a world of her own staring at him he looked at her and flashed her the most gorgeous smile ever, Destiny smiled back flashing him her sweet, innocent smile. He then started to walk over to her. He was wearing dark blue jeans, with a white short sleeve shirt, black shoes and he had a silver chain on. He was about five foot nine and had short brown hair, and as he got closer she saw that he had green eyes with a hint of brown in them. As he stopped in front of Destiny he asked her, her name and she told him and in return he told his was Ash, he then asked her to dance. Destiny had never felt so happy and as they danced and stared deeply into each others eyes she knew Ash was the one who would rescue her from her horrible life with her stepmother.
And so they danced long into the night and then went home together, hand in hand, then before they stepped into Destiny's house they shared the most passionate, romantic kiss under the dark starry sky.

                                                                      The End

So that was my Cinderella story and i hope everyone out there who has a evil stepmother learns to stand up to her one day the way i had to. And for all those people who don't have stepmothers, i salute you, because i wish i didn't have one. Hope you enjoyed :) xoxo

No one likes an Evil Stepmother......

 








                                                                      ..... Especially when the princess doesn't deserve it....

...But at least she has her to prince to rescue her...

....And they lived happily ever after

Games, Games, Games - It's All Fun!

Everyone loves to play games consoles, i know i do. I have a pink PSP and i love it! I love to take it out with me if i'm travelling long distances because it keeps me occupied and stops me getting car sick. But i know some people like to play different games consoles like my boyfriend has a playstation 2 and 3 but his favourite one is the PS3 because the graphics are alot better, but then he find's that the PS2 has a wider range of games for it as it's been out longer than the PS3. My brother on the other hand has a Xbox 360 which is good graphics aswell but it has different controls to the playstation and it also doesn't have a very wide range of games for it, but with the Kinect i find it very fun to play on and it's good for exercise and family activities. My sister has a pink DS which i think is very fun to play on but I find it can be more for young children, the same as the Nintendo Wii, it's a very fun and energetic games console but it's more for young children as there aren't many adult games to play on it. I find all these games consoles fun to play on but i also love to do it the old fashion way and get out a good old board game now and again. One of my favourites is cluedo. Me, my boyfriend, sister-in-law and their mum love to play this game, it's one of our favourites and we find it so fun and it's a good way to spend time with the family. Some of my other classic favourite board games are monopoly, twister, guess who, jenga, scrabble, draughts and snakes and ladders. Also apart from board games and games consoles and love to play paper games because they are simple all you need is a pen and some paper and your away i remember playing them with my mother and brother when i was younger, in school with my friends and i still play them with my little cousins and sister now. The paper games i love are hang-man, boy/girl, chatter box,  word search, dot-to-dot, naughts and crosses and pictogram. I love all these games old and new and think they are a great way to have fun with your friends and spend time with your family. So have fun everyone, play lot's of games.....oh and no cheating! Haha!

Destiny-Leigh Poem: A Best Friends Betrayal

I thought you were my BFF,

But you betrayed my trust,

We did everything together,

I thought this must be true friendship, it must.

We used to share all our secrets,

And hang out all the time,

It was fun being your friend,

I was your best friend and you were mine.

But then you did something horrible,

Something a best friend should not do,

You exchanged mean words about me with my ex,

I didn’t think that was you.

And now I know what your really like,

I’ve cried and cried but now I’m ok,

It’s time to move on and forget I think,

Time to make new friends and a new best friend one day.

You will regret what you have done,

And wish you never did it,

Cause you will never find a BFF like me again,

You’ve blew it, it’s done, that’s the end of it.

                                             

                                            I cried for you..... but my tears are no more!

Bitches & Backstabbers

So we have all had a friend who has back stabbed us at one time or another and do u know what it's the most upsetting and heartbreaking feeling in the world to have to go through it. We all think that our friends are for life. We do everything with them and spend more time with one more than our other friends because that friend is our "special" friend, we go shopping with them, talk for hours on end and share all our secrets with them because we love and trust them. But what happens when that "special" friend turns around and goes against everything that your friendship stands for? Well i once had a "special friend" who did exactly that to me, and more than once aswell....
 So i have this friend Regina we have known each other for 8 years and do almost everything together, well we used to anyway. Back last year she told my boyfriend some bullshit lies about me kissing another boy, which was a total lie and she was even trying to convince my boyfriend to finish me, but luckily he believed me. I didn't talk to her for almost a year, but finally i thought i'd be the better person and forgive her, so i started talking to her again and eventually we were back to our old selves. But no more than a few months on in August this year she yet again betrayed my trust for her. I went on her facebook because she asked me to do her a favour on it and i thought i would just have a nose on her facebook because we always usually nosed on each others facebooks. As i was casually looking through i seen she had been mailing my ex, who i don't talk to anymore but i know she still does. I started reading the conversation and everything was fine, until i saw some very hurtful comments about me. They were both saying that i'd got really fat and Regina was saying that she would never let herself get like me and they were saying other things that i don't even want to repeat. Seeing that conversation really hurt me, i mean i knew my ex was a knob but i never thought my best friend could say such horrible things about me, and so easily aswell. And even though it hurt alot to do it, i had to stop being friends with Regina, i wish she didn't do it because she was such a nice person, well that's what i thought anyway. But in a way i'm glad i saw it because now i know that she never really was a true friend, just some girl i knew.

So what does that go to show? That you can't trust everyone, and if a friend does disobey your trust, don't be too quick to forgive and forget. Be the better person and try to smooth things over but don't make my mistake and let it happen to you twice. But if your lucky enough to have a best friend who you know you will always be able to trust, then good on you both :) Stick together and don't let anything tear you apart.

                                                               

                                                                      Is it really?

                                                                    

                                                 I wish we were still best friends tbh......

                                                       Wow.

                                                       After all I've done for you.

                                                       After everything I sacrificed

                                                       Your still not happy.

                                                       And you'll decide to get what you want.

                                                       You stab your best friend in the back.

                                                       Well that hurt.

                                                        And i wont't get over it easily.

                                                        I may not be a revenge type of person.

                                                        But you will regret it.

                               <3Best friends has 11 letters, but then again so does Backstabber <3

                                              .....But you betrayed my trust for you :'(

Why Do You Have To Act Like That?!

I don’t get girls these days. All they seem to want to do is have sex or flirt with every boy they see. I mean I see 13 year olds who dress up in short skirts, high heels and are plastered in make-up all the time! And do u know what, it really gets on my nerves even though it’s none of my business and it’s up to them what they do, I just don’t understand why they would want to be like that. It’s no wonder a lot of young girls get raped these days, i'm not saying it's right for girls get raped or anything i absoluletly hate things like that happening, i'm just saying girls go out in little dresses and stilettos thinking “oh yeah I’m going to get into the pub tonight and pull an older man” but men don’t realise how old girls really are beneath the makeup and clothes whereas other girls, like myself, can tell how old a girl really is. I ‘ve asked my boyfriend a few times when we’re out how does he think a girl is and he’s said “about 18” and I’ve been like “Haa more like 14”. And I just think girls like that have no pride in themselves and they don’t have an ounce of self-respect! And how can their parent’s let them dress and act like that? I mean that’s their little girl dressing in mini skirts and high heels and getting themselves drooled over by older men who I are only going to want to use them for sex and that’s going take away their virginity, that’s their innocence gone in a flash. I mean my mother would never ever let me go around acting and dressing like that at 13 or 14, not because she’s strict but because she loves me, I didn’t even wear make up until I was 14 and I still don’t like heels or short dresses now. I’m not saying girls aren’t aloud to wear heels or short dresses because that’s up to them but why do young girls who have their whole lives ahead of them want to act like slag’s. I’m sorry for swearing but that’s what they are in my eyes and in my opinion that’s disgusting! I just wish that young girls could be like it used to be before: no make up or straighteners or caring about boys, just having fun with your friends, not caring if you get dirty, eating whatever you want all the time and just having loads of fun because to be honest you only have about 13 years of your life to have fun and not worry about your appearance or boys etc after that you will be worrying about things for the rest of your life. It’s quite upsetting to see that young girls these days can’t seem to see that.

This disgusts me so much ^^ 

                                                And this is just wrong is so many ways ^^

Destiny-Leigh Poem: I'm In Love With You

As you will find out i love writing poems about love and romance, but i do some other poems sometimes. I wrote this one when i first got with my boyfriend who is the love of my life :) and our love inspired me to write this poem.

I'm In Love With You

I'm in love with you,

I love you I really do,

Every time I see you,

All I want to do,

Is see your smile,

It takes my love for you that extra mile.

It makes me want to kiss your face,

And when you kiss me back, you make my heart race.

You make my heart go boom,

And when I'm not with you I hope to see you again very soon.

I think about you all the time,

I'm forever yours, will you be forever mine?

I wrote this for you to show that I really do love you,

And i hope you will always feel the same way too.

Too Fat or Too Thin? You Just Can't Win!

Do u ever feel like if you put on "too much weight" everybody is staring at you? But then if you lose alot of weight still everyone seems to be staring. Well i know I've felt like that for the whole of my teenage life. In the last year I've put on 2 and half stone which I'm very down about and I know alot of teenagers feel that way too. Many teenagers suffer from either anorexia or bulimia and they get judged for it but personally i just want to help them because what they are suffering from is a mind disease and we shouldn't be judging people with anorexia or bulimia we should be trying to help them. Anorexic and bulimic people feel insecure about their bodies either because they have been bullied or because of family or relationship issues, so we should look past what they look like and think why do they look like that. I've never suffered from anorexia or bulimia but once i did starve myself for 2 weeks! Only surviving on one meal a day, i lost a stone, but i know now that that's not the right way to lose weight because it made me so ill and i almost passed out a few times. Now this time i have been eating 3 healthy meals a day, walking instead of taking the bus and i do exercise in my house aswell, using fitness DVD's and the exercise bike. These are simple and easy things to do and even though it will take a while for me to get to the weight i want, it will be more rewarding and i know that i won't get ill doing it this way. Most teenagers get peer pressured into losing weight either by people making fun of them for their weight or seeing celebrities and models who are a size 0, but a size 0 is not a good look and it's horrible and unhealthy for the body. So why can't people just leave us alone and let us be happy the way we are. If you want to lose weight that's fine but do it on your own accord and in a safe and healthy way. Please don't let yourself turn anorexic or bulimic because at the end of the day it's not worth putting your health at risk just to lose a bit of weight.

Welcome To Destiny's Domain!

Hey! My name is Destiny-Leigh and i will be doing new posts every day talking about what goes on in everyday life and in the world. I love to write poems so i will also be posting some of my old and new poems for you all to see. Thank you so much and i hope you all enjoy my blog :)

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